Shame is considered to be innate emotional response. As innate it has very important protective effect. Shame is helping us to detach from others when we sense disk of abandonment.
Shame is an emotional response that arises when we perceive ourselves as falling short of social or personal standards, often in front of others. It is thought to have evolved as a way to maintain social bonds and conform to societal expectations, encouraging behaviors that promote acceptance and belonging. This emotion can also stem from internalized values or a fear of rejection, motivating us to avoid actions that could lead to social Key points that can trigger shame include:
In all these cases, shame motivates us to correct our behavior to regain social acceptance or self-approval.